Sunday, January 10, 2010

ukhuwah

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله و بركته

Reminder : This post contains many errors, especially gramatical errors.. Thus, all of you must help me to correct it, actually this is my new method to improve my english, i will make mistakes as many as i can, and all of you must correct it, hahaha padan muka...

I dont know what is it, but just assume it as a letter. This letter should be read without any prejudices and do not have any relations to those who are alive and those who had die.

This letter is specially dedicated to those who put their beliefs in ukhuwah, those who have ukhuwah, those who love ukhuwah, those who want to know about ukhuwah, and those who want to refresh their ukhuwah.

This letter is alo dedicated to those who are in disputes with their friends, those who used to have disputes with their friends, and those who will be fated to have disputes with their friends in future.

This letter is also can be dedicated by anyone who wants to dedicate it, and it also can be dedicated to anyone who want this letter to be dedicated to them.

This so called letter is like this...

To those who are concerns...

dear disputants and disputees,

Re: ukhuwah

I am sorry to interfere into your business or problems, in fact who am I to interfere about it? I am just the outsider or just and intruder who minds other business... I dont know all of you, and I even dont know anythings about your conflicts. What it is? How it is? and Where it is ? Absolutely I dont know anythings about it, yet I dont want to know anythings about it. I just know about this and want to make all of you know about it....

Whatever the problems it is, however the conflict it is, and whereever it is, for me the matter do not own any rights, do not earn any privileges, and do not have any leverages. What rights? Rights to hurt everyones heart, What priveleges? Privileges to defect your ukhuwah, What leverages? Leverages to destroy your relationships. And the most importants things it do not have any rights to hurt your hearts, to make you sad, and to make you cry. Who it is to do so, Come on have some pity on your hearts.. Please dont let it cry anymore...

Dont you have any pity for your heart? Dont you heart own any right to feel happy? do you enjoy make your heart cry? Please give some sympathy to your heart. it have done so many things for you, but why you always let it down... Are there any enjoyment to do so? if there is, then share with me, i want to do that so. “Who care? my hearts enjoy to do like that, who are you to say this and to say that to me”

If you say that, i would like to say this, dont be too selfish. Who am i? i just a person who had been teached ukhuwah is very significant bond, very holy bond, and great bond which own special places in the hearts of those who put their beliefs in ukhuwah and those who love ukhuwahs. Who teach me ? my experiences...

Dont you ever think about every ukhuwah believers and lovers in the world? dont you feel guilty towards them? dont you feel sorry for them? Just think about it for a while, do you think your problem own any rights to drop the ukhuwah to the lowest place? Ukhuwah must be place at it place which it at very special corner in our hearts.. Otherwise it will be zalim for those who not put it at it reasonable place.. Thus, please think for a moments, where is your ukhuwah right now, whereever it is pleaseput it at the rights place..

If you dont want to do it, it just fine, dont do it for yourself, for me, or for your friends, but please do it in the name of ukhuwah, please do it for every ukhuwah believers in the world, please do it to every single ukhuwah lovers in the world, and please do it for your suffering hearts.. At least try to do it, just remember what ukhuwah used to give you, I am very sure it used to give you happiness, then why dont you do somethings for it now, at least for sake of yourself...



Both of you i.e you and your friends who are in disputes are very childish, even the children do not act like you, Just because of that small things, just because of that matters you had ruined your ukhuwah... Actually your problem is neither a things nor matters... it was just your unconrolled emotions who lead it to become bigger than world war 2.. Thus dont be too emotional...

I am sorry again for interfere, but please listen to me for this time only... please... let me say this... please close you eyes for a moments and try to listen to your sufferinf hearts... please listen to it properly, listen to it first before you said I am crazy and that is nonsense.... Even i dont hear it and will never hear it, i am very sure the hearts will never stop from crying and saying please refresh the ukhuwah, please rebuild the ukhuwah, please strengthen the ukhuwah, please return back the ukhuwah, and please watering the ukhuwah with your love... please..please....please...

I wish every of us can listen to it eventhough i know we will never and ever able to listen to it. But, have some pity on your hearts, your hearts own th rights to feel happy and to be loved. I am writing this letter because dont want all of you repeat my mistakes. If you have be like me soon, it is too late. I used to have many person arounds me who loves and cares about me. But, i did not appreciate them and even do not notices them at all. And i just think about them at the moments i truely lost them, not at the moments actually, i only start to think about them after the long moments i lost them.

Please do not do this mistakes again. Always remember, haha bosan la lak cakap bi, jadi nak cakap bm la, to nura and mikail dont worry, i will translate it for you, just for you, if and only if you read la, if not just forget about it..

Sebaik-baik hidup adalah hidup yang paling kurang penyesalannya ataupun yang tiada penyesalan, dan seburuk-buruk hidup ialah hidup yang paling banyak penyesalan dan penuh dengan kekesalan. Jadi elakkan hidup dalam kekesalan. Aku telah hidup di dalamnya dan kekesalan itu telah menjadi bayang-bayang yang setia menemaniku ke mana sahaja. Namun aku sangat gembira dan bersyukur kerana ia telah menjadi guru yang baik bagiku dan telah mengajarku erti-erti kehidupan yang tidak mungkin aku pelajari dalam mana-mana buku.Alhamdulilah, Wallahualam...

You and your friend is just like you and your shadow, what tied it together is the ukhuwah. Thus, return the ukhuwah back. Ya allah sampaikanlah ukhuwah yang ada di dalam hati-hati kami ini kepadamu..

Your faithfully,

فقير الفقير.

This letter flying without wings into your hearts*

* Subject to your permission...

The end of the letter...

1 grammatical question, do we need to write I as capital whereever it is? or we dont have to. I used to laugh at my friend when he make this mistakes, now i get the pay back, Alhamdulilah.

Moral of the question: Dont laugh at your friends...

Salam....

86 comments:

nusana nosa said...

waaaaa~
cam kena batang idung je..
cm kena masa je surt ni smpai k p'lihatanku..
hu3~ T.T

tqa said...

wahh T_T
right post at the right time.
ahaha.

ukhuwah is incomplete i guess without trust.
you have to trust your buddies.

it is pathetic if your own friends did not put a trust on you.arghh i've gone through this before and it is hurt.
ergh ~_o

but as zarkashi wrote. don't be too emotional. and i tried.
its work! just stay calm, think the best solutions and act as cool as you can.

the best thing is FORGIVENESS.
believe me. the only word that makes you calm and comfort is forgiveness.

try to forgive your friends ;DD

inshaAllah everything will be better.

cZar_iNa said...

hurrmm.every single words..exactly true~no doubt mr author..

as i always mention..
and i keep reminding myself with this:

what really makes our relationship successful is>>>

~honest.trust.believe~

deep in ur heart, think bout it.feel it.make it real~

with these three simple words yet very meaningful and significant(esp 4 me.huhu),,we'll gain the immortal relationship. no matter what the obstacles might be.

we deserve a long-lasting ukhwah~

::IF GOD WILLING::

p/s: bout the use of word "I", as for me, it doesn't matter la k0t~uhuu.hehe. up to us dear friends~huhu

cZar_iNa said...

upss..

*ralat~
"up to u dear friends"~hehe

فقير الفقير said...

nusa and tqa: i dont kow wheter it is right or left , it just a coincident, suddenly, i remember my friends who had passed away and who still alive, then i just write it...

c zar: it is undoubtly an exaggaration. not wvery word is true, and i wondering is there any truth in this post... however thkz for the support, i know it sincerely come from your heart. thkz

i just hope i can pratice whatever i had written in the post.. i feel afraid and touched when remember this quranic verses

                               
1. Whatever is In the heavens and on earth, let it declare the praises and glory of Allah. for He is the Exalted In Might, the wise.
2. O ye who believe! why say ye that which ye do not?
3. Grievously odious is it In the sight of Allah that ye say that which ye do not.

tqa said...

zarina.
i think don't trust anyone else but yourself.

kepercayaan tu bagos tp jgn terlalu.
sbb, once kite terlalu percaya pd seseorang and then suddenly dia betray us, kite akan sgt2 frustrated and sukar utk membina semula kepercayaan.

trust but always beware.

nusana nosa said...

yup~
pleaz defend the trust with beware..
keep it there & never let it go..
& if u can, defend it also with fear..
u fear, if the one u trust will betray u..
& u beware, if that situation happen to u..
beware + fear = trust..
trust me or not, it's up 2 u..
i just said what already happen to me..
& i'm feel abandoned now~
hu3~

like my mom owez say..
"never trust anyone.. DON'T trust BOYS & NEVER trust GIRLS"

فقير الفقير said...

i think it is too much if we dont want to trust anybody at all, if we want to do it make sure we abolish our right to get trusted by everyone, it is very unfair if we want people to trust us but we dont want to trust people, Just an opinion, we must trust people, but we also must never trust people 100%...

فقير الفقير said...

sometimes when we fell abandoned,try to think it more deep, maybe it was us who abandoned ourselves from the others...

tqa said...

yeah. not 100 % lah. bahye

cZar_iNa said...

yea.everything must have back up.viruses are here and there~huhu
what we wish, is not exactly wat will happen.

trust. but not too much.we'll feel disappointed in the end. and regret~huhu.like u guys say.beware~

yup zarkhashi. i got ur point. not just them. but u as well en?
~put urself in others shoes too. isn't it??hehe..we thought it was others fault, but it might be our own.kan??hehe..

n tolerence really helps..

"~hurm.action speaks louder than word zarina~"hehe <4 me ya~>hik33

tqa said...

betol.

فقير الفقير said...

yes it is, why not we just forget about the shoes, and try to put ourselves in more reasonable place which is our hearts, haha ngarut2 je,

tqa said...

why not we forget everything and just start a new life?.
haish ske sgt ke gado2 ni.
haha.
emo plak.
toink toink~

فقير الفقير said...

haha hidup baru xkan bermakna klu fikiran masih di takuk lame, mind set la. it was not the life we need to change it is about ourselves...

tqa said...

yelar zarkashi.
maksod mulakan hidop baru tu dengan fikiran baru la.
memaafkan dan melupakan dan mulakan hubungan baru yg lebih kukuh gitu.
aww!

kan senang.
org sering berkata,
sng memaafkan tapi sukar melupakan.
betol ke ek?
bagi aku memaafkan perlu seiring dengan melupakan.
pjg la plak cter.
hehe

فقير الفقير said...

ye2 aku tau tu, saje je haha

bagi aku memang tak kan boleh lupa pun, tempat jatuh lagikan dikengan nikan pulak luka- luka hati kan

jadi ingatlah ia dengan cara yang positif,

tak mustahil perkara yang wat kita menangis kesedihan pada hari ini akan membuat kita menangis kegembiraan pada masa hadapan?

tqa said...

tah.
bebetol,
xleh lupe buat2 la lupe. haha
bukan lupekan smue tp jgn igt.
lain tau maksodnye.
ape ek yg boleh mmbuat kite kegembiraan?
haa! jeng3~

lalallalala!
^_^

nusana nosa said...

aq tau pe yg bleh wat kita epi~
hohoho~

tqa said...

ape dy kinah????

nusana nosa said...

adessss..
ko ni kn..
jgn la sebut2 nama aq kt sini..
kntoi identiti sudaaaa~
wakakakaka~

epi ni umum la..
skopnya luas..
klu aq..
aq epi bila duk dpn komp, lyn kwn2 aq..
lyn T******..
kui3~

tqa said...

eh confidential ke nme ko ni?
ahaha
nusana.
ak plak, klo nak hepi,
g jalan2. mkn pizaa. haha.
so mari sme2 kite buat mnde yg menghappykan diri.
bukan sengsarakan diri.

oh yeah.

nusana nosa said...

tido pon epi kn??
mkn pon epi~

((confidential~~~>>

فقير الفقير said...

nak happy jumpalah sang pencipta happy minta dengan Dia, klu x lupakan jela, klu lite raase cm kita epi pun 2 bkn epi sbnrnya, klu kita xnk ingat lgla kita akn teringat, manusia ni kan cenderung keapada perkataan tidak ni, tp klu kite nak ingat study pyh je nk ingat nye, bukan kite la, aku haha

nusana nosa said...

adesss...
ayt ko..
mmg ayt nk matikn ayt org..
wakakakakaka~

فقير الفقير said...

haha camne nak mematikan klu nak menghidupkan pun tak berdaya, sesungguhnya hanya dialah yang berkuasa atas segalanya لا حول ولا قوّة إلاّ بالله العليّ العظيم

tqa said...

eeei ak da stat xphm ngn kate2 zarkashi ni.
zarkashi ak tau ko leh je construct ayat yg lebih mudah dipahami,
pe kate ko tukar cket.
kan x smpai maksod.

nosana. betol tidor pon best gak.
jumpe sang pencipta tu mmg la. adoyai,
org tgh ckp psl aktiviti seharian ni.

nusana nosa said...

ngeeee~
aq dh start penin..
adkh ini slh 1 cr ko melawak, zarkashi??
adesss..

((sejk bila nama aq jd nOsana? bukn U k?>>

cZar_iNa said...

hahhaa..kowng nie~
da macam bowak dlm fb je nie~~haha

xp2.gud2~hehe..sharing kan.hehe

nusana nosa said...

sharing is caring..
tp kt tqah + yana up skit, sharing is loving~~
he3~

فقير الفقير said...

i dont know, whatever, let just forget it to avoid more misunderstandings.... haha sharing is sharing la..

tqa said...

haha. zarkashi ko da leh log in kan?
sharing something with someone means you care for him and love him/her.

kinah,
sharing is loving. toink toink.

nusana nosa said...

yup~~~
toink2.. <>

فقير الفقير said...

dah2 cume tersilap taip email @ google, kan kena taip @ gmail, huhu sharing is very subjective, but i think if we sharing somethings with someones, it means we trust him or her la kan..

nusana nosa said...

perhaps..
mybe..
btol~~~~
ntah~~~~

cZar_iNa said...

zarkhashi: maknenye...
u trust us?? hik33

tshy n kinah: yez2.sharing is caring.caring is loving.in broader sense kan.hehe

فقير الفقير said...

Of course la i trust all of you, but not 100 per cent la kan, huhu and 1 more thing the right spelling for my name is zarkashi not zarkhashi... But dont say sorry, i dont mind it... Just want to say the truth..

tqa said...

ahahaha.

nusana nosa said...

blurrrrrrrrr~~~~~~
wakakakaka~

فقير الفقير said...

it is normal la when we learn new things, then we blur...

(aRe-TiCk) said...

huyo...
tulis komen dengan muka y sgt serius tengku kita ni...huhu

فقير الفقير said...

Mestila kna wat muka cm2 klu x kantoila dgn sir tgh wat mende lain, haha knala cover sket kan..

cZar_iNa said...

ooooooooo..hehehhehe

tqa said...

uikks! ooohh ..xku sangka.
haha

nusana nosa said...

adesss..
mmg bhy la klu kels dlm lab com..
hohoho~

tqa said...

tahu xpe.
pantang dok depan komputer.
ko pon same kinah.
aku pon same.
haha

فقير الفقير said...

korang sumenya same, hahaha

nusana nosa said...

ko xsama k??
kui3~~

tsyai:
tau xpe..
dh la usim dh mngurangi jumlah block mende2 alah 2..
muahahaha~~~ ((pkrn jht))

tqa said...

kami smue same. 1 hati 1 jiwe 1 kepala.
wahh! terlalu bersatu la plak.
facebook+blogging jOm!!

nusana nosa said...

tagged??
wakakaka~~

فقير الفقير said...

Mungkinkah ini disebut sebagai wihdah , hahaha

cZar_iNa said...

ahahhaa.yg x elok 2, cepat je nk ber"wihdah" ye??hehe

i x pasan pn u all leh men komen2 time klass.muka sume steady je en??hik33

cayalah kowg~ahakss.hehe

nusana nosa said...

klu yg elok..
apakh namanya i2??
hohoho~~~

فقير الفقير said...

haha dah titik persamaannya kat situ, nak wat cmne kan... wihdah 2 elok je, n sentiasa elok, cuma org yg berwihdah 2 je yg kdg2 x elok..

nusana nosa said...

yup3.. ((smbil angguk2kn pale))

~~pdhal skit pon xphm pe mksudnya 2~~
hohoho~~

فقير الفقير said...

jgn bertaqlid sebegitu, bahaya2...

nusana nosa said...

opssss..
lupa daaaa~~
apkh yg ptot hmba lakukn supy xb'taqlid sebegini??
hu3~

tqa said...

byk nye komen,
xsempat nk follow.

nusana nosa said...

xpyh follow..
bc je cik tsyai..
he3~

tqa said...

i follow~

nusana nosa said...

follow me??
hua3~

tqa said...

ma za?

nusana nosa said...

la ba'sa..
kui3~

tqa said...

tob'an! haha ,,ana suda'~~ la afham ma kalamuha.

nusana nosa said...

alyaum..
ngeeeeeeee~
minggu ckp ba k ni??
adessss...

tqa said...

la' ya sodiki, kulla yaum la budda 'alaina 'an natakallam lughoh arobiyyah. inshaAllah.

(hebat kot aku) haha

nusana nosa said...

hebat mung~
badhos..
lagi2??
wakakkakaka~

tqa said...

yajib 'alaina li nazhab ila mat'am ba'da fasl lianna ana jau' jiddan.

nusana nosa said...

hohoho~
jau'??
ana aidon..
hu3~

tqa said...

hayya bina!

nusana nosa said...

aiiikkk??
ba'da fasl, k~

tqa said...

inshaAllah.
walakin ana la afham fi syarsyah.
hoho

nusana nosa said...

limaaza lam tuhaawiliina an tafhamiina ila assyarh??

tqa said...

ana la a'riff,
mumkin lianna nazortu ila kombuter laisa ila syarsyah.
hahaha

(aRe-TiCk) said...

yajib 'alaina li nazhab ila mat'am ba'da fasl lianna ana jau' jiddan...

ma hia qaedah allati yaj`alu hazihi hukm wa`jiban???hahah

nusana nosa said...

alfokus..
alfokus..
he3~

tqa said...

hukm mua'rodoh.
al jau' huwa sabab limaza hukm wajib li nazhab ila ma'am.

nusana nosa said...

min aina masdaruhu??

tqa said...

ana la a'rif. hohohoo

aKu & oKtObEr said...

waaa...
'adzim!!!
takallam bi lughah 'arabiyyah
ngeee~

nusana nosa said...

tob'an..
tob'an..
he3~

aKu & oKtObEr said...

erkkk...

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tqa said...

na'am, ana mumtazah inshaAllah ;p
wa enti aidon. masyaAllah.

ma fi musykilah

fifaunited said...

slm..nyibuk jap..fahamilah konsep bls jase tu syeikh..ha3

فقير الفقير said...

hahaha vice versa la kan, ni kulufi or kusilo ni? tapi sebaik2 pembalas adlah allah kan, jadi biarlah insan tak balas pun, yang penting Allah balas kan, jangan risau Allah itu maha Adil, segalanya2 pasti dibalas...

 
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